How to Make a Girl Feel Good Physically and Emotionally

If you want to make your girl have a better sexual experience and make her feel good with her body then you may be thinking about a new love-making position or taking one of those erection enhancement pills. Surprisingly, there are non-sexual things that you can do to make your girl feel good. And you may be surprised at how doing these things can make your partner feel really good.

Give Her Validation Every Now and Then.

Giving her validation simply means telling her she is beautiful. Doing this can gives her a very profound emotional validation since you won’t be doing it because you simply want to get her in bed. You are saying she’s beautiful because you find her stunning. You have no hidden agenda behind the gesture.

Consider making a love letter.

Even though your actions say a thousand words, your girl would still want to hear about your feelings for her. The reason giving her a love letter works best is that she can have something she can go back to whenever she feels a little uncertain about your love for her. Now, you don’t have to be good writer to make a good love letter. Simply put those feelings into words as best as you can.

Go on a vacation for a week or two.

Taking a vacation has a lot of benefits. It can, not only help keep both of you mentally and physically healthy, but also provide an intimate experience. Intimacy is important in not only keeping a relationship healthy but also making your sexual experience exciting. And the best way to promote intimacy is to go to a place that is new and unfamiliar.

Share a bed.

This means sleep with her. However, you don’t have to necessarily have sex with her. Having the strength to resist the urge to make a move on her especially when she says she’s not in the mood can be valuable. Not making a move even when you are in bed with a beautiful woman conveys that your feelings extend sexual urges. It is even better if you can cuddle with her without escalating it. This will make her feel secure and loved.

Give her a massage.

A woman can through a lot in a day. Because of this, she may prefer a good body massage than sex. This can help relax her body and mind. More often than not, getting a massage from you may be the last thing she would expect, which only adds a surprise factor. Most of the time, a few back rubs can do the job.

Sex Tips for Guys Given By Women

1. More foreplay Yep, this was by far the top answer. We need to take our time guys. Women often need some time to get aroused. A “quickie” is fine every now and then, but try to use more slow, enjoyable foreplay to really make your romps passionate. As one woman in our survey elegantly put it: “Don’t rush it.”

2. New positions Turns out women like to switch it up too. Don’t be afraid to shake things up by trying some new positions and/or having sex in different locations. The change of pace could add that spark your looking for. The worst that can happen is neither of you like it and you don’t do it again. (Ok, that’s not true. The worst that can happen is someone gets injured or arrested. But even those outcomes would certainly “spice it up”, right?)

3. Talk openly about sex If you want to know what your partner is looking for, it’s probably a good idea to just ask. A strong, emotional connection is incredibly important to women. One of the women we surveyed said “Just know that it’s about feelings for her.” You’d be amazed how far a conversation about sex can go. Start the discussion by asking her something like “Are there things you’d like to try in bed?” She’ll probably ask you the same question, and we bet you’ve got some ideas in mind that you haven’t told her about yet.

4. Initiate sex more often Most women say they want more sex, not less. And most women want you to take control and kick it off. Which leads nicely to tip #5…

5. Be more spontaneous Initiating sex at different times, different locations, and different “occasions” can help boost her attraction and arousal. Don’t just wait until “sex time”. Anytime can be sex time if you’re creative.